Volunteering is often seen as an act of kindness, a way to give back and help those in need. For some, it’s second nature. However, for me, the idea of volunteering was initially something I resisted. I’ll admit it: before I started volunteering at the Brockville and Area Food Bank, I was one of those people who didn’t see the value in giving my time without receiving anything in return. I dug my heels in, convinced that if I was going to dedicate my time to a cause, I should be compensated for it.

However, what I didn’t realize at the time was how much volunteering could change my perspective—and how it could open my heart to a world of kindness, connection, and purpose.

A Reluctant Start

When the idea of volunteering at the Brockville Food Bank first came up, I wasn’t interested. I thought, “Why should I give up my time for free when I could be working for a paycheck?” It wasn’t that I didn’t care about people in need—it’s just that I didn’t fully understand the power of volunteering or how much I could personally gain from the experience.

But life has a funny way of showing us new things, and in 2021, I found myself looking at volunteering through a completely different lens. After the loss of my father, a man who had volunteered at the Brockville Food Bank for years, I started to see the value in giving back. My mother and I began volunteering together every Wednesday to honor his memory, and it wasn’t long before I was volunteering on Fridays too.

And then, something shifted. I realized that the act of giving without expecting anything in return wasn’t just about charity—it was about connection, community, and healing. Volunteering wasn’t a sacrifice; it was a gift.

A Family Tradition of Giving

When I first started volunteering at the Food Bank, I quickly found myself immersed in a supportive, tight-knit community. It felt less like a chore and more like a privilege to be there. Everyone, from the clients to the staff and fellow volunteers, treated each other with such kindness and respect—it felt like family.

This experience was a sharp contrast to my initial beliefs about volunteering. I realized that helping others didn’t feel like a job or a transaction—it felt like a way to build meaningful relationships, make a tangible impact, and contribute to something bigger than myself. I wasn’t just serving food; I was offering a smile, a listening ear, and a sense of belonging.

Changing Perspectives

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned from volunteering is that it’s okay to change. My initial view—that volunteering should come with financial compensation—was rooted in a limited perspective. Over time, I’ve come to understand that the true rewards of volunteering are intangible. They come in the form of gratitude, personal growth, and the joy of knowing you’ve made a difference in someone’s life.

Everyone has their own views on volunteering, and that’s completely fine. Some people may feel that volunteering is not for them, while others may embrace it wholeheartedly. But what I’ve come to realize is that people can change. Our views, our priorities, and even our hearts can evolve over time. I used to be reluctant to volunteer, but now, it’s an integral part of my life—and it’s something I’m deeply passionate about.

Honoring My Father’s Legacy

My father’s legacy of service lives on through my volunteer work. Even though he passed away in 2021, his commitment to helping others continues to inspire me every day. Volunteering at the Brockville Food Bank has become a way for my mother and I to honor him, carry forward his values, and share in a tradition of generosity. Every time I walk through the doors, I feel connected to him and to the community he loved.

Though I never imagined I would be here, giving my time without compensation, volunteering has been a powerful and fulfilling experience. It’s shown me that, sometimes, the greatest rewards come when we give without expecting anything in return.

The True Impact of Volunteering

Volunteering at the Brockville Food Bank has given me an incredible opportunity to see firsthand how essential these organizations are in supporting those in need. It’s not just about providing food—it’s about offering dignity, respect, and a sense of hope. Whether we’re packing boxes, stocking shelves, or just offering a friendly face, every small action adds up to make a significant difference in the lives of others.

What’s even more meaningful is the relationships I’ve formed with other volunteers and clients. Volunteering is more than a task—it’s about creating bonds and contributing to a larger cause. It’s about showing up for people in their time of need, offering compassion, and being part of a community that cares.

Why Volunteering Matters

If you’re someone who’s hesitant about volunteering, I understand. It can feel daunting to give your time, especially when you’re used to being compensated for your work. But as I’ve learned, the value of volunteering far exceeds any paycheck. It’s about personal fulfillment, growth, and connection. Volunteering allows you to give back in ways that can’t always be measured by money, but that are nonetheless invaluable.

Everyone’s journey is different, and it’s okay if your views change over time. The beauty of volunteering is that it’s never too late to start. Whether you choose to volunteer at a food bank, an animal shelter, or a hospital, every act of service contributes to building a more compassionate world.

Final Thoughts

Volunteering at the Brockville Food Bank has been a life-changing experience for me. It started as something I resisted but has transformed into a cherished tradition, one that connects me to my community, honors my father’s legacy, and gives me a sense of purpose. I’ve learned that volunteering is not about compensation; it’s about giving without expecting, learning, and growing alongside others.

If you’re wondering whether volunteering is right for you, I encourage you to give it a try. Everyone’s perspective is unique, and what might start as a reluctant decision could turn into a rewarding journey. Change is possible, and the impact of giving back is immeasurable.

Let’s all keep the spirit of generosity alive—and remember that, sometimes, the act of giving can change not only the lives of others but our own lives as well.

Do you volunteer? If so what are your thoughts on volunteering?